The Joy of Enjoying Beer Alone: A Personal Reflection

As someone who has adapted to the work-from-home lifestyle over the past year, I’ve unintentionally cultivated a new evening ritual. Each day around 6 PM, I find delight in selecting a carefully crafted beer to enjoy while preparing dinner. This isn’t just any beverage; I take pride in choosing something truly special—beers with depth, character, and a story to tell.

However, I’ve begun to grapple with an unexpected feeling: guilt. There’s a notion that beer is inherently a social experience, meant to be shared with friends and family. So, when I find myself savoring a richly flavored barrel-aged sour or an exquisite fruited lambic—all while dining solo—I can’t help but feel like I’m somehow missing the mark.

My partner humorously suggests I save these indulgent brews for occasions when we have company. “Why not wait for a gathering so someone else can appreciate them too?” she asks. Yet, the thought of explaining the nuances of flavors and the craft behind a pricey beer every time can seem like a daunting task. Sometimes, it feels far more rewarding to quietly reflect on the earthy Brettanomyces character in my glass than to navigate the conversation dissecting its merits.

This brings me to a wider question: is it common for individuals to relish their fine beverages in solitude, or is there an unspoken rule suggesting we should always share? Social media often showcases gatherings surrounding rare and expensive beers, leaving me wondering if I’m missing out on essential camaraderie.

Then again, I remind myself that many casual drinkers might not appreciate the finer details, often unable to distinguish between diverse hops, such as Citra and Mosaic. Perhaps, in some scenarios, solitude provides a backdrop for a deeper connection with the beverage itself.

So, is it socially acceptable to enjoy your beer alone? Or should we always be saving those unique bottles for group tastings? Would love to hear your thoughts and experiences on this topic—do you indulge solo, or do you believe in sharing the experience? Cheers!