The Dilemma of Solo Beer Enjoyment: Is it a Social Faux Pas?

In today’s fast-paced world, many of us have embraced the comfort of staying home, especially over the last year. For those who enjoy the art of brewing and tasting, the ritual of selecting a quality beer to savor after a long day can serve as a delightful escape. However, this practice often comes with an unexpected challenge: the feeling of guilt associated with drinking beer solo.

As someone who works from home, I’ve found comfort in my evening routine of uncorking a meticulously chosen beer around 6 PM while preparing dinner. Not just any beer, mind you; I prioritize those with rich flavors and intricate profiles that deserve my undivided attention. Recently, however, I’ve begun to feel as though I’m committing a taboo by indulging in this personal appreciation without any companions to share the experience.

My partner often chimes in, pointing out that it seems a bit extravagant to enjoy a $35 barrel-aged sour or a $76 fruited Lambic all by myself, especially on a Wednesday night. She suggests saving these special brews for when we host friends, so I can enjoy them in good company. Yet, when the moment arrives, I’d much prefer to appreciate the distinct Brettanomyces characteristics in silence rather than explain why such beers are more than just pricey beverages.

As I scroll through social media, I frequently come across photos of communal beer tasting events, showcasing groups gathered around rare bottles of beer. I can’t help but wonder if I’m missing out on something essential. But then again, it’s worth noting that many casual drinkers often struggle to distinguish between different hop varieties, a reminder that true appreciation isn’t always a shared experience.

So, is it perfectly acceptable to relish exceptional beer in solitude? Do others save their prized bottles for gatherings, or is solo enjoyment not only understandable but also commendable? In a world that often equates socializing with fulfillment, perhaps it’s time to embrace the notion that enjoying a fine beer—whether alone or with others—is a valid expression of our passions and preferences.

Let’s open the floor: How do you balance the joy of solitary beer tasting with the communal aspects of sharing?