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Steven Coulson
Steven has been drinking beers, wines and spirits for decades and has a propensity to go about them at length after a few drinks.
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When Beer No Longer Loves You Back: Navigating Social Drinking in Your Senior Years
As we navigate the complexities of adulthood, many of us have shared a long and fond relationship with beer. Whether it was during our college days or at friendly gatherings, having a cold one with friends has been a staple of social interaction. However, there comes a time in life when our beloved beverage no longer sits well with us, and we find ourselves at a crossroads.
At 57 years of age, I find myself in this very dilemma. Throughout my life, beer has been a source of joy and relaxation. While I’ve certainly experienced my share of late nights in my younger years, I’ve always prided myself on maintaining a balanced relationship with alcohol. My experience with a former spouse who struggled with alcoholism likely kept me cautious about my own drinking habits.
Recently, however, I’ve noticed a change. The simple act of enjoying a couple of beers in the evening now often leads to discomfort. Just two drinks can trigger a headache or leave me feeling sluggish—far from the relaxing experience I once cherished. This shift has prompted me to reevaluate my relationship with beer.
What I miss is not just the taste of my favorite brew, but the camaraderie it fosters. The leisurely chats at the local brewery, the laughter shared over a pint—these are the moments that create lasting friendships. The thought of missing out on these social rituals, however, is daunting.
I’m curious to know if others in their 50s and beyond have faced similar challenges. How did you adapt your social habits when the beverages you once enjoyed became less compatible with your health? I’m looking for solutions that allow me to maintain the social aspect of drinking without the repercussions on my body.
Whether it’s exploring non-alcoholic options, finding new venues that focus on other aspects of socializing, or simply embracing moderation in different forms, I’m eager to learn from those who have encountered this situation. Your experiences and insights could help me—and others—navigate this transition gracefully and continue to foster connections with friends in enjoyable ways.
Here’s to finding balance in our golden years, and cheers to new beginnings!