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Steven Coulson
Steven has been drinking beers, wines and spirits for decades and has a propensity to go about them at length after a few drinks.
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The Challenges of Beer Preferences: Navigating Conversations in a Macro-Lager World
If you’ve ever found yourself in a social setting where you felt like a “beer snob” simply for opting for a craft beer over a mass-produced lager, you’re not alone. Recently, I had an unfortunate experience while out to dinner with some colleagues that perfectly highlights this unique challenge.
As I placed my order for the house IPA, I was immediately met with a surprising reaction. It felt like I had just announced my intention to pair my main course with an expensive wine rather than a simple beverage. My colleagues exchanged perplexed looks, and one even remarked, “Wow, you’re really into that craft beer stuff!” It was as if I had crossed some invisible line by daring to request a drink with more depth than the usual macro lagers.
One coworker went off on a tangent about how he prefers his beer to be “normal” and devoid of what he referred to as “all those fancy flavors.” Ironically, he then proceeded to order a Stella Artois, believing that its “imported” status somehow elevated it above the local IPA I was enjoying. It was amusing to think that while I was open to exploring various flavors and aromas, he saw mine as pretentious, while happily disregarding the fact that he was paying a premium for his “European lager” that tasted quite similar to mass-market alternatives.
In the midst of this discussion, I tried to explain that hops and other craft ingredients are not some strange concoction but rather an integral part of the beer-making process that enhances the flavor. Still, my attempts fell on deaf ears. He remained convinced that anything beyond a Bud Light was simply unnecessary pretentiousness. It made me question how best to navigate these conversations when all I genuinely wanted was a flavorful beer—not to make a grand statement about my taste.
Have you ever found yourself in a similar situation? Defending your beverage choice to someone who thinks that a Corona with lime is the pinnacle of sophistication can be frustrating. So how can we engage in these discussions without coming off as “beer snobs”?
First, it’s essential to remember that everyone has different tastes, and what might be simple to one person could be a revelation to another. Rather than getting into a debate about flavor profiles, we could start by asking others about their preferences and sharing our experiences in a way that emphasizes excitement rather than superiority.
In the end, it’s all about enjoying what