Appreciating Beer in Solitude: A Personal Reflection

In today’s fast-paced world, many of us have developed unique rituals to enhance our daily routines, and for some, that includes enjoying a fine beer in the comfort of our own homes. Recently, I found myself pondering a question that many beer enthusiasts might relate to: Is it acceptable to indulge in a great beer alone, or does it lose its essence without a social backdrop?

Having worked from home for the past year, I’ve cultivated a delightful habit of savoring a meticulously chosen beer around 6 PM while preparing dinner. This isn’t just any beer; I seek out exceptional brews with rich flavors and complexity that warrant a moment of appreciation. However, I’ve started to feel an odd pang of guilt for savoring these moments in solitude, as if I’m committing a faux pas in the world of fine brewing.

My girlfriend often teases me about my choice to open a $35 barrel-aged sour or a $76 fruited lambic on a seemingly ordinary Wednesday evening. She questions my decision to enjoy these unique flavors alone instead of saving them for a gathering where others can join in the experience. While I appreciate her perspective, my inclination leans toward relishing the intricate flavors of a well-crafted beer in peace, rather than having to justify its worth.

This internal conflict has led me to wonder about the norms surrounding beer consumption. I often see posts online showcasing communal bottle shares, where enthusiasts gather to explore rare and complex brews together. While I admire that sense of community, I can’t help but question if such gatherings are essential to truly enjoying craft beer. After all, not everyone has the palate to discern the subtleties between different hop varieties, such as Citra and Mosaic.

So, what do you think? Is it more common for beer lovers to reserve their special bottles for group enjoyment, or is it perfectly acceptable to appreciate excellent beer alone? The joy of a beautifully crafted beer should, in my opinion, transcend whether it’s enjoyed solo or in a crowd. After all, what matters most is the pleasure it brings to those who savor it, whether that experience is shared or solitary.