Savoring Solitude: Embracing the Joy of Enjoying Beer Alone

Have you ever pondered whether indulging in a beer by yourself feels a bit guilty, especially when it’s often portrayed as an inherently social act? If you’ve found yourself in a similar situation, you’re not alone.

After working from home for a year, I discovered a delightful ritual during my evenings. As the clock strikes 6 PM, I treat myself to a meticulously chosen beer while preparing dinner. I’m not reaching for just any brew; it’s about selecting one that offers depth and nuance, deserving of my full attention. However, lately, I’ve been grappling with an unexpected concern—am I committing a faux pas by savoring this experience alone?

My girlfriend occasionally raises her eyebrows at my choice to indulge in a $35 barrel-aged sour or a $76 fruited lambic on a midweek evening, suggesting I should save these premium selections for when we have guests. Her perspective stems from the belief that sharing such unique brews enhances the experience. But to me, it feels more rewarding to immerse myself in the intricate flavors without having to justify my choices to anyone.

Is this feeling of guilt about drinking alone common? I often scroll through posts showcasing friends gathering around rare and extravagant beers, and it makes me question whether I’m missing out on a vital communal aspect of beer appreciation. Yet, I also recognize that many casual drinkers often can’t distinguish the nuances between different hops and styles.

So, is it socially acceptable to enjoy great beer in the comfort of your own company? Or should we always save our finest selections for gatherings? In my experience, there’s something uniquely fulfilling about being able to truly appreciate the craftsmanship in a good beer, without distractions. Ultimately, whether shared or savored alone, the joy lies in the experience itself—there’s no right or wrong way to enjoy a brew.

To all my fellow beer enthusiasts, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Do you prefer to drink alone or save it for social occasions? Let’s raise a glass—whether in solitude or in company!