The Complexities of Enjoying Beer Alone: Is It Really a Social Experience?

In a world where shared experiences often define our enjoyment of food and drink, one might wonder: is it acceptable to savor a fine beer solo? As someone who has spent the past year working from home, I’ve developed a delightful ritual of indulging in a carefully selected brew as I prepare dinner each evening. My choice typically leans towards the extraordinary—barrel-aged sours and complex lambics that deserve a moment of my undivided attention.

However, I’ve found myself grappling with a curious sense of guilt for indulging in these luxuries alone. My girlfriend has pointed out what she perceives as a touch of pretentiousness in my habit of cracking open a $35 bottle of barrel-aged sour or a $76 fruited lambic on a regular Wednesday evening. “Why not save those for when guests come over?” she asks, suggesting that sharing these exquisite flavors could enhance the experience.

Yet, what strikes me is the joy I find in experiencing these flavors without the pressure of explaining the nuances. I relish the Brett character and unique notes of each beer without needing to justify my choices. Is it truly selfish to appreciate a great beer in solitude?

Caught between societal expectations and personal enjoyment, I often ponder whether my behavior is typical. Various online communities frequently showcase gatherings where enthusiasts come together to share rare and expensive brews, igniting a twinge of FOMO (fear of missing out) within me. However, I also consider that many might not fully appreciate the differences between hops like Citra and Mosaic, which complicates the communal experience.

This leads to a fundamental question: Is it acceptable to relish exceptional beer on my own, or should I reserve these moments for social occasions? As I sit down with my glass of meticulously brewed beer, I’m relieved to acknowledge that enjoying a good drink, whether in solitude or with company, is ultimately about personal preference. While the communal aspect has its undeniable charms, there is also beauty in savoring a moment of peace with a beverage that excites the palate.

So, I put it to you, dear readers: Do you reserve your special brews for gatherings, or do you find solace in enjoying them alone? Let’s explore this intriguing intersection of beer appreciation and personal enjoyment together!