The Solitude of Sipping: Navigating the Complexities of Enjoying Beer Alone

In recent years, with many of us adapting to remote work and increased time at home, it’s not uncommon to stumble upon unique rituals that bring us joy. For some, this might include the simple pleasure of enjoying a finely crafted beer during a quiet evening. Yet, as I’ve discovered during my own home brewing journey, savoring a delicious beer by oneself can spark feelings of guilt—especially in a culture that often champions shared experiences.

For the past year, I have developed a personal tradition: at around 6 PM, I indulge in a carefully chosen beer while preparing dinner. This isn’t just any beverage; I typically lean toward beers that boast complex flavors and intricate profiles, something that truly deserves my attention. However, I find myself grappling with an underlying discomfort. Is it socially acceptable to savor a rare, barrel-aged beer on my own?

My partner has voiced her concerns, playfully teasing me about my propensity to open a $35 sour ale or a $76 fruited lambic on an ordinary Wednesday. She often suggests saving these special brews for gatherings, reasoning that they would be better appreciated among friends. But the truth is, I relish experiencing the nuanced Brett character of the beer in solitude without the need to justify my choices.

This leads me to wonder: Is my behavior unusual? I often encounter posts online celebrating communal beer experiences, where enthusiasts gather to enjoy rare and complex offerings. While I appreciate the camaraderie found in these shared moments, I can’t help but ponder if there’s something equally valid about enjoying these beverages in solitude.

It’s worth considering whether others also reserve their favorite beers for social occasions or if it’s perfectly acceptable to appreciate them alone. After all, not everyone can discern the nuanced differences between hop varieties like Citra and Mosaic, and sometimes it’s simply more fulfilling to enjoy a beer on your own terms.

In the end, the enjoyment of beer—whether shared or solitary—ultimately lies in personal preference. There’s a beauty in both experiences, and perhaps the real takeaway is that how we choose to celebrate our favorite brews is entirely up to us. So, here’s to those peaceful evenings spent in the company of an exceptional beer, regardless of who—or if—anyone else is there to join you.