Does anyone else feel guilty drinking beer alone because it’s supposed to be a social experience?

The Solitude of Savoring Craft Beer: A Personal Reflection

As someone who has transitioned to working from home over the past year, I’ve developed a delightful evening ritual: enjoying a carefully curated beer as I prepare dinner. This isn’t just any beer; it’s a thoughtfully selected brew that boasts a depth of flavor and complexity worthy of my attention. However, I have recently found myself grappling with an unsettling feeling—am I somehow committing a social faux pas by indulging in this experience alone?

When I mention to my girlfriend that I’m opening a $35 barrel-aged sour ale or a $76 fruited lambic midweek, she often raises an eyebrow. To her, it seems a bit extravagant to drink such high-quality beers solo when there are opportunities to share them with friends. She often suggests waiting until we have guests so that someone else can appreciate the subtle notes with me. Yet, I wonder: is it wrong to relish the unique flavors of these brews in solitude, or is that enjoyment meant to be a communal affair?

It has become a source of internal conflict. While I recognize the charm of communal gatherings centered around rare and intricate beers—events filled with laughter, conversation, and shared tasting notes—I often find more satisfaction in the singular experience of exploring each sip quietly. After all, when it comes to appreciating beer, some people might not even notice the difference between Citra and Mosaic hops, let alone discern the nuances of a barrel-aged ale.

This introspection leads me to question whether there are others out there who share a similar sentiment. Is it acceptable, even commendable, to enjoy an exquisite beer solo? Or is the true beauty of craft beers meant to be experienced in the company of others?

In the end, I believe that each person’s journey with beer appreciation is personal. Whether you choose to savor a complex beer on your own or save it for sharing, what’s most important is the enjoyment it brings you. So here’s to those quiet moments with a great brew; may they continue to delight our palates, whether alone or among friends. What are your thoughts on enjoying craft beer in solitude? Do you reserve your finest brews for company, or do you indulge in your passion solo?

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