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Steven Coulson
Steven has been drinking beers, wines and spirits for decades and has a propensity to go about them at length after a few drinks.
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When Your Love for Beer Turns Sour: Navigating Social Drinking at 57
As we age, our bodies can start to respond differently to the things we once loved—in this case, a cold beer after a long day. At 57, I find myself reflecting on my relationship with beer. Throughout my life, I’ve enjoyed a good brew, indulging in it during my college years and beyond. While I never struggled with alcohol dependency, my marriage to someone who did has always kept me mindful of my own consumption.
Lately, however, I’ve noticed a shift. The thought of sipping a few beers in the evening still entices me, yet my body seems to have other ideas. Consuming just two beers now comes with a painful trade-off: a likely headache and a general sense of sluggishness. This outcome makes me reconsider the value of those couple of drinks. After all, it’s tough to justify feeling unwell when all I want to enjoy is a relaxing evening with friends.
The social dimension of drinking is what I miss the most. There’s something enjoyable about gathering with friends at a local brewery, sharing laughs and great conversations over a pint. But I find myself at a crossroads—how can I still partake in the camaraderie without the drinks I used to relish?
I’m curious if others in my age group have faced similar dilemmas regarding social drinking. How did you navigate the shift in your relationship with beer? What alternatives have you found that still allow you to enjoy those priceless moments with friends? Let’s share our experiences and perhaps find a way to adapt that keeps the social aspect alive while respecting our bodies’ new boundaries.