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Steven Coulson
Steven has been drinking beers, wines and spirits for decades and has a propensity to go about them at length after a few drinks.
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Embracing Change: Navigating the Shift in My Relationship with Beer
As someone who’s enjoyed a good brew for many years, I’ve recently found myself in a bit of a predicament. At 57, I’ve never considered myself an excessive drinker. While college days were filled with late nights and plenty of laughter over pints, I’ve always maintained a healthy relationship with alcohol, even living with an alcoholic spouse without falling into the same patterns.
However, I’ve noticed a shift lately. My affinity for beer remains strong, yet my body seems to be waving a white flag. There was a time when I could kick back with a few drinks without a second thought. Now, after just a couple of beers, I often find myself on the verge of a headache and feeling noticeably sluggish. The enjoyment isn’t worth the aftermath.
This situation leads me to reflect on one particular aspect that I find challenging: the social component of drinking. Gathering with friends at a local brewery or enjoying an evening out just doesn’t feel the same if I’m not participating in the ritual of having a drink. The camaraderie that comes from sharing a cold beer is something I sincerely relish, yet I face the dilemma of how to balance that with my current limitations.
I’m curious to know if others have experienced a similar transition. How do you navigate the social aspects of drinking when your body seems to be at odds with your mind’s desire to indulge? Have you found alternative ways to enjoy time with friends? I would love to hear your strategies and experiences as I explore this new chapter in my relationship with beer and social interaction.