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Steven Coulson
Steven has been drinking beers, wines and spirits for decades and has a propensity to go about them at length after a few drinks.
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Navigating Glassware Etiquette: How to Politely Request the Right Beer Glass
When dining out, many of us appreciate the finer details, including the way our drinks are served. Recently, I experienced a situation that I believe many beer enthusiasts can relate to—ordering a hefeweizen only to have it served in the wrong glass.
During my dinner outing last week, I was excited to indulge in a crisp, refreshing hefeweizen. However, when my drink arrived, it was presented in a standard pilsner glass rather than the distinctive wheat beer glass designed for it. While this may seem like a minor issue, the choice of glass significantly impacts the beer’s aroma and taste. The unique shape of a hefeweizen glass is crafted to concentrate the beer’s fragrant notes and facilitate an ideal head formation, enhancing the overall drinking experience.
Seated with coworkers who may view all beer glasses as interchangeable, I felt hesitant to make a fuss. I didn’t want to be perceived as a difficult customer, so I opted to sip quietly from the pilsner glass, suppressing thoughts of how enjoyable my drink might have been in the appropriate vessel. To my surprise, I later noticed a stack of proper wheat beer glasses behind the bar—indicating that the server had simply grabbed what was most convenient.
This experience made me wonder: Is there a courteous way to request the correct glassware without creating an uncomfortable atmosphere? After some reflection, I believe there are several approaches that can help manage this situation with grace:
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Use Humor: A light-hearted comment can diffuse any tension. Something like, “I’d love to try this in its natural habitat—a proper wheat beer glass!” can make your request feel friendly rather than pedantic.
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Educate Lightly: If you feel comfortable, you could mention why the right glass matters. For example, you might say, “I know this may sound picky, but hefeweizens really shine in the right glass due to their aromas. Would it be possible to swap it out?”
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Be Direct but Polite: You can simply state your preference with a smile, saying, “I’d really appreciate it if I could have this in a hefeweizen glass, if you have one available.”
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Choose Timing Wisely: If the situation feels right, bringing it up when placing your order or just after the drink arrives can streamline the request and reduce any potential