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Steven Coulson
Steven has been drinking beers, wines and spirits for decades and has a propensity to go about them at length after a few drinks.
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Navigating Beer Etiquette: How to Politely Request the Right Glassware
Enjoying a good beer is an experience that many of us treasure, especially when dining with friends or colleagues. However, the way a beer is served can greatly influence its taste and aroma. Recently, I found myself in a situation that raises an interesting question: How does one politely decline a beer served in the incorrect glass without making the atmosphere uncomfortable?
During a dinner outing last week, I ordered a hefeweizen, a style that is best appreciated when served in a specific wheat beer glass. Unfortunately, my drink arrived in a standard pilsner glass. While it may seem like a minor detail, the shape of the glass significantly affects the beer’s aromas and the overall tasting experience. The proper glass allows for better head formation and helps to concentrate the delightful scents that enhance the flavor.
As I sat there, sipping my hefeweizen from an unsuitable glass, I felt conflicted. I didn’t want to draw attention to myself or appear overly particular in front of my colleagues, who likely had little awareness of these nuances. So, I opted to accept the beer as it was, all the while contemplating how much richer the flavor would have been had it been served in the ideal glass. To add to my chagrin, I later spotted the appropriate wheat beer glasses neatly displayed behind the bar, which reaffirmed my suspicion that convenience, rather than quality, motivated the server’s choice.
This experience left me pondering a question that many beer enthusiasts may face: What is the most courteous way to address this issue without seeming fussy? Is there a way to educate others about the importance of glassware while still being respectful?
For anyone who finds themselves in a similar predicament, here are a few strategies you might consider:
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Frame it as a Preference: Instead of outright rejecting the beer, express your love for the beverage and mention that you enjoy it most in its traditional serving glass. This can lead to a discussion about the benefits of the right glassware without making it seem like a critique.
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Ask with Curiosity: You might say something like, “I’ve been told that hefeweizen tastes better from a wheat glass. Do you think it would be possible to switch it up? I’d really appreciate it!” This approach fosters a spirit of discovery rather than disapproval.
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Prior to Ordering: If you’re aware of the menu beforehand