Title: The Unspoken Truth About Kids at Wineries: A Gentle Reminder for Wine Lovers
When you think of a day out at the winery, the last image that should come to mind is a chaotic scene filled with energetic children running amok. Unfortunately, this scenario is becoming increasingly common. As a professional in the wine industry, I’ve had my fair share of challenging experiences when it comes to families visiting wineries, and I feel compelled to share some thoughts on the matter.
Recently, I found myself chasing after a group of young children in the barrel room—an area meant for relaxing and appreciating the finer details of winemaking. I tried to accommodate a father who had brought along his enthusiastic gaggle of kids, believing they would appreciate the experience. It quickly became apparent that their interest extended only to the bungs on the barrels. Lesson learned: wineries aren’t playgrounds, and children often don’t share the same appreciation for the atmosphere we strive to create.
Just the week before, I faced another challenge when a large family—15 individuals, to be exact—showed up without a reservation, seeming surprised when we could not accommodate them for tastings. We clearly state in our guidelines that groups of nine or more require prior arrangements to ensure the best experience possible. With kids running wildly around, climbing on farm equipment and creating a ruckus, it was hard for other guests to enjoy their time, and let’s just say it was less than ideal for the staff as well.
Here’s the truth: most wineries are not designed to be kid-friendly environments. While some may have amenities like picnic areas or farm animals, the primary focus at a winery is the adult experience—the enjoyment of fine wines, conversations, and relaxation. Many establishments cater to specific adult audiences, such as bachelorette parties or social gatherings, making it increasingly tricky to find the right venue for family outings.
If you’re considering a wine-tasting adventure, I strongly encourage you to think about alternative arrangements for the little ones. Hiring a sitter, leaving kids with family, or exploring kid-friendly activities elsewhere can help ensure everyone has a pleasant day. The reality is, winery staff is not there to supervise children; our primary aim is to provide a peaceful, enjoyable experience to those seeking to unwind with a glass of wine.
It’s essential to remember that not all wineries are created equal. What works at one venue may not be replicated elsewhere, so do your homework before planning a visit with your children. Should